Guys I’m really EXCITED… because this is giving away a BIG secret which I haven’t been sure for this and that reason whether to do it or not. Partly because it’s somewhat controversial as in this is an underground community NOT part of the seduction community that isn’t looking for any publicity and also some of my own friends DON’T want me to share this info.
But, really I think it’s all for the best if I do, and it’s really part of the Blissnosis formula here so I feel I almost have to, just to be fair.
And the information boils down to this; ideally you want to meet the hottest, most attractive, sexually enlightened, open, fun, and friendly women out there. But the thing is, clubs, bars, bookstores, malls and the like are NOT the best places to meet these kinds of really hot, hot, hot, super friendly, openly sexual women.
To begin with, really hot girls, most of them, DON’T go to your average bar on the corner or even out to clubs. Most really hot girls are actually homebodies that would rather go out with a tight-knit circle of friends, or the parties that they go to are exclusive parties that are screened for who goes inside, and it’s not just a free-for-all anyone who pays their $5 bucks at the door goes in.
So the question is, where do the hottest, best, most quality women go to, where is the best place to meet these kinds of women.
Well, let’s first talk about why your average, typical clubs, although they can be great for practicing meeting girls, can have their limitations.
Let’s take your typical or bar or club. You know how it goes if you’re kind of new to the whole thing and you’re just starting out meeting women. First of all, they’re often packed with other guys, so already the ration of men to women is not in your favor. There’s lots of guys all working the same girls.
When you finally work up the courage to approach a woman, she either blows you out of the interaction by not responding, or she’s just not overly enthusiastic. Or you’re talking for a few minutes and the conversation just kind of dies. Or maybe you get a phone number or two, and you call her a few days later and she doesn’t pick up the phone or she blows you off then.
As you get better, you start getting more numbers, more makeouts, but still you’re not really dealing with the true 9s and 10s. The true 9s and 10s don’t even deal with these rough and tumble meat markets. And you’re still getting plenty of blowouts and bitchy attitudes and the floods and swarms of other guys all around the girls.
Now let’s look at how one would REALLY want to meet women, ideally.
Let’s create the ideal situation you’d want to find yourself in, in a social party- call it the “perfect pickup party”.
In the perfect pickup party, you’d walk into a party where women make up at least 50% of the guests. So more than half of the faces are women, so there’s more than enough girls to go around.
In the perfect pickup party, the party is exclusively for “members only” to keep out the flood of single guys. And yet YOU have complete access to the party. So just by being there, the girls assume you’re a “somebody” worth talking to.
In the perfect pickup party, the women are pre-selected for their beauty, their friendliness, and their sexual enlightenment. So you’re not likely to run into any bitchy, insecure, or immature girls.
In the perfect pickup party, the girls aren’t there to get validation from the guys coming up to them, and the girls aren’t there just to dance with their girlfriends-they’re actually there to MEET people.
In the perfect pickup party, 99% of the other guys are at the typical bars and clubs and have NO IDEA that this party is even taking place.
In perfect pickup party, there’s no more waiting in lines, no more competing for girls by a ton of guys, and no more getting “blown out” by bitchy attitudes.
Wouldn’t you like to be at the epicenter of this kind of party? But wait it gets better…
Let’s push the barrier a little further. Imagine you’re at this awesome, exclusive party where all the hottest, friendliness, most sexually enlightened women in the city go.
But now imagine that you’re walking into the party with two girls on your arms, a girl on your left and a girl on your right. Let’s call them Jane and Janice.
Jane and Janice are dressed to impress; high heels, sexy dresses, hair and nails and makeup all done to the nines. They’re not with you because of your looks or your money, but because you are the MAN, because you know how to give them explosive ecstasy and pleasure.
So you walk into the ‘perfect pickup party’ but massively socially proofed by your two girls on either arm, which is the single most powerful attractor to other women.
And your two girls Jane and Janice are NOT there to be jealous cock-blocks. Your two girls in fact are out to meet and greet OTHER women for YOU.
Your two girls spend their time at the party chatting up the other girls and directly suggesting that they meet you. And when beautiful women directly recommend you to other beautiful women, that is the ultimate “pickup line”.
Pretty soon you have girls going up to YOU, girl after girl, to the point you’re just throwing girls around left and right.
And remember, this is a special, member’s only party: majority women and women pre-selected for their openness and sexiness, so hooking up afterwards with your favorites is a breeze in comparison.
Now imagine that you’re invited to these special parties EACH week and you’re meeting new girls EACH week.
Here’s the secret, the big secret. These exclusive, underground members-only parties take place all over the country, each week.
For instance, there’s a huge Bliss Party held every month here in South Florida. You can go to the website www.theblissclub.com and check out the photos there for yourself. You also have the Scandalous parties, the Alter Ego parties, the Skin parties, the Velvet parties, all in Florida alone.
My colleague Damian and I have had some amazing experiences with this. And it’s a great way to meet young, sexually free and open-minded women… IF you know how to get in.
And it’s not hard… IF you have a sexy Firecracker girl on your arm. She’s your magic ticket inside. Single guys are NOT allowed into any of these parties. Without that Firecracker or Starlight Girl, you can’t get in.
And if you try to bring any old girl off the street, she might not be able to actually handle the party itself, as all the women will around her will be sexually adventurous, and dressed to the max. She’ll just stand bewildered in the corner and asocial, so you need to have a mature Starlight Girl to really take advantage of these parties.
But once you get access, you can have your Firecracker girl do much of the pickup work for you, approaching, warming the other girls up, and making introductions. And each weekend you can go to new parties and meet new women, OR just build relationships with two or three of your favorite girls.
And it’s great for the girls too; you’re bringing them a gift of opening up their possibilities and sexuality. You’re growing and expanding each woman’s horizons.
The point of all this is I want you to look beyond the narrow horizon of the usual bars and clubs; that there’s a whole alternate universe of super hotties right below the surface. And there’s no reason to settle for anything less.
The key lies in becoming a Starlight Guide- having the tools to transform women into your enthusiastic advocates activists. Women want to be led and shown a whole new world of expression, Tensation, meditation, inner beauty, inner peace, and sexual awakening. Do that, and you easily have your ticket inside the exclusive parties.
So here is your tip of the day. If you want a woman to accompany you to these kinds of Bliss parties, she has to have respect for you. She has to feel like a feminine woman and know that she is with a masculine man- sexual polarity has to be there.
And one of the best ways to show masculine fitness- like sexual dominance, leading, not caring what others think- is to demonstrate it to a woman in the bedroom.
In the bedroom, women want a masculine man that lifts them off the ground, pulls them by the back of their hair, talks sexy to them, and tells them what to do.
But this is where guys go wrong; they only express themselves half-heartedly in the bed. They’re afraid of what the girl might think, so they censor their core masculine expression.
But instead of censoring yourself, you want to become an animal, a pure animal, to forget all humanity and let out the raw beast inside of you.
The first raw beast move you can make is the WALL THUD move. Basically you grab your woman by her butt, and lift her up so that her legs wrap around your waist, and you push her up against the wall to make a large THUD! BANG! Noise.
So you see her there, you look at her with raw sexual aggression, you picture yourself forcefully making love to her, and you walk up to her, push her back toward the wall, pick her up by the butt and legs in a swooping motion and THUD! Hit her up against the wall and make out with her OR put your lips close to hers and hold it there before pulling away to tease her.
What this move does is you are physically dominating the woman, overpowering her with your masculine strength. She is up in your arms, off her feet, she has to surrender to your physical dominance and trust you. The loud THUMP! Noise on the wall adds an edge of risk and danger and bad boy. It also conveys to a woman that you take what you want, that you go for what you want. You are leading the woman, you aren’t asking. All of these are masculine qualities and show your masculine fitness and allows the woman to relax into a feminine role as the sexual polarity is now there.
You can follow the move by pulling on the back of her hair, so that her heads goes back and exposes the neck to you. This puts a woman into a submissive position where she has to let go and trust you. It adds the element of danger and the forbidden, and pulling on the hair releases sexual-enhancing hormones into her bloodstream. And then speak sexy into her ear, “You smell so nice…” and smell her neck, and then tell her, “I’m going to rip all the clothes right off your body, baby.”
Again, you are LEADING, showing masculine aggression, dominance, that you go for what you want, that you don’t take no for an answer. That even if she’s not in the mood for sex, you don’t care, you’ll make her in the mood for sex.
Expressing your masculine aggression in this way is the greatest gift you can give to the woman, because feeling that sexual polarity, that contrast between the masculine and the feminine makes a woman feel happy and ecstatic and fulfilled. It will be her greatest joy and she’ll remember you for it always.
Sexual polarity also allows the woman to open herself up to you and respect whatever you have to show her or teach her, so that her inner transformation and outer change can take place into a sexually enlightened and happy Starlight Girl who will be your biggest advocate and activist to making your fantasies and dreams come true.
Well guys I hoped that you enjoyed this lesson today and that you can put these tips to good use with a girl. And definitely make sure to check out that website www.theblissclub.com. What I want for you is to have access to the best social events possible for meeting fantastic women and over the next few months we can make that absolutely possible if you keep following the videos I’m going to be putting out over the next few months. I’m Jesse Charger, enjoy your week!
Hey guys, today I want to talk about a key, foundation concept in regards to Blossoming a woman into a Starlight Girl, and becoming the kind of man that can train a woman so that when you get to a social event or a party, you have runaway Blissplosion so that the other women just want to be around you and get to know you.
That foundation concept is this- masculine and feminine polarity. Or put in another way, the man, you, having masculine fitness, and the woman having feminine fitness.
Think of a really hot, attractive, sexy woman in your mind. Now you probably don’t fantasize about the masculine butch biker woman who weighs 300 pounds and wears a black leather jacket while speaking in a tough, masculine and hoarse voice from smoking cigarettes all day typically.
You probably don’t think of a woman covering up her body with baggy clothes and never smiling or expressing her femininity as being particularly attractive either.
No, most guys fantasize about meeting a woman wearing a colorful or sparkling and revealing dress. Most guys fantasize about a woman with feminine curves like larger breasts or a perky butt. Most guys fantasize about a woman who speaks in a soft feminine voice with a nice smile.
We want a woman who expresses her feminine side freely and openly, a woman who has feminine fitness.
Likewise, women fantasize about masculine men, men who express their masculinity and have masculine fitness. They want to meet a guy who is a leader, who is sexually dominant, who goes for what he wants, who carries through with his actions despite what others might think, and who walks with his head held high.
In fact, our very happiness and inner fulfillment is directly link to the level of masculine or feminine fitness that we’re expressing. A woman who expresses her femininity open and freely and feels it will feel happy and fulfilled. And a man who expresses his masculinity through leading, sexually dominating, and so on will feel fulfilled and happy.
That’s why for instance when you’re at a club and you’re just leading girls by the hand, plowing through resistance, speaking loudly over everyone else, touching the woman, all expressions of masculinity, you feel a real rush inside, you feel super good about yourself.
So by teaching a woman to express her femininity, to have feminine fitness by means of how she dresses, how she walks, how much she smiles, her overall style, her sexual proficiency, and how she thinks on the inside, you bring a real, beautiful gift to her that she can’t get from anyone else. You bring to her real happiness and inner fulfillment, and she’ll love you for that. That’s what will make her go to ends of the Earth for you and from the respect and awe and gratitude that she has for you, will help to bring other women into your Circle.
Now in most relationships, that doesn’t happen. In most relationships, the masculine-feminine polarity starts off strong while the couple is dating. The man acts more masculine to impress the woman and the woman dresses and acts more feminine to impress the man.
But over time, say a year into the relationship, the masculine-polarity declines. The woman starts to put on extra weight, she stops dressing up, she starts to nag in a harsh voice, and overall she becomes more asexual or more masculine. She loses her femininity.
Meanwhile the man loses his masculinity. He stops taking charge, he defers more to the woman’s demands, he puts on a few pounds himself and loses that masculine figure.
Or maybe the couple just becomes more like asexual buddies. And the magic and spark in the relationship is lost because of the lack of masculine-feminine polarity.
But if you want a woman to actively and enthusiastically attract other women to bring into your Circle, you can’t let that happen. As her Guide, your specialty, your forte is nurturing and bringing out a woman’s feminine fitness, giving her permission to express her feminine side, and teaching her to become a fully realized sexual woman.
And at the same time, you work on your own Masculine fitness, to express leadership and dominance and the other qualities of masculine expression. All of which makes a woman follow your lead, follow what you have to show them, and allows you to bring a girl to a party and have her meet other girls with you, and allows you to hold a Circle of women.
So when you combine the energies of a masculinity fit man, yourself, coupled with a femininely fit woman, when you have that sexual polarity and expression, and you enter a party, that’s when Blissplosion hits the party like a stick of dynamite.
Your Firecracker Girl is turning heads, generating nuclear social proof for you, and you start attracting beautiful women into your sphere left and right.
So here is a practical tip that you can apply right away to improve a woman’s feminine fitness and to practice your own masculine fitness in one shot.
The number one beauty accessory for making a woman look and feel hot, hot, hot and glamorous and taking on the identity of being a desired and sexy woman are high heel shoes.
High heels can instantly transform a woman from a 7 to an 8 or an 8 to a 9. They add curvature and musculature to her legs, make her taller, and give her butt perk. They also just make a woman FEEL sexy on the inside.
I guarantee that you walk into any club or party and the sexiest girls are wearing heels. There’s nothing else one can so easily to do add so much sexual value and attractiveness to a woman than to simply slip on a pair of high heels.
That’s why in gentlemen club’s, the one accessory that exotic dancers are required to wear universally, are stiletto shoes, because it’s the ultimate, universal sexual attractor.
So whenever you’re going to go over to a woman’s house tell her over the phone, “Hey Jen, I’m coming over. And when I get there, I want you to be wearing a pair of your high heels. A pair of tall heels. I want you to look sexy for me when you open the door.”
Or even when scheduling your first date with a woman can you tell her, “Hey we’ll meet at Starbucks… and wear something sexy with high heels.”
What you’re doing here is you’re leading the woman, you’re expressing your masculine dominance and leadership, and that you go for what you want, whatever her reaction might be.
So she wears the high heels for you at the door, she looks super sexy, and you’re already leading the interaction. She’s more feminine, you’re more masculine, you have feminine-masculine polarity. The attraction is amped up, you both feel sexier, you both feel happier and more fulfilled. And she’s super happy because she has a dominant and leading man and she’s been given permission to be feminine.
And then, when you have sex with her, all of her clothes can come off, but tell her to keep her shoes on while you break her into the bed!
And just, as a ritual, have her wear her high heels every time you meet up together. So whenever she greets you at the door, she’s a sexy little hottie. It’s a good habit for her to learn to be your Firecracker Girl. It doesn’t mean she has to wear heels at every moment, like when you’re watching a movie together on the bed, but just when she greets you at the door she should look her sexiest best for you.
Blossoming a woman in that way, giving her permission, teaching her something new, inspiring beautiful transformations in her, is the first step to her becoming a Firecracker and then a Starlight Girl and then blazing through the social events and parties in blazing inferno of Blissplosion.
That’s it for this week! If you want to share perhaps a way you’ve stumbled across for Blossoming a woman, just write me or leave a comment below!
This is pretty much the same information from last week (in case you missed it, you can watch the video version by clicking here), but some people prefer to download and read electronic books.
WARNING: I tried to really simplify things… in fact, it’s oversimplified. There’s MUCH more to this, but it gives you the basic idea. I’ll be expanding on each section. Thanks for all the feedback too guys.
Wow, okay, I’m excited, this is fantastic because this is the moment we’ve been waiting for because now I am going to get into the very heart of Blissnosis Love, the formula of Blissnosis Love. Hi my name is Jesse and this is important material that turns everything you know about pickup upside down on its head, so you have to listen up very closely.
Look, what’s the top fears of any guy. First, the fear of being alone. We don’t want our youth to slip by or to die without having the experience of a beautiful woman in our arms. Beautiful on the outside, but also beautiful on the inside. That’s understandable.
And a second top fear is the fear of looking like a failure or experiencing humiliation in front your friends or other people and looking bad. That’s why we’re after a woman to love but that’s also why cold approaching women can seem like such a nerve wracking chore sometimes. Not to mention the amount of time that goes into it. Not so glorious.
That’s where Blissnosis Love comes in. Meeting more women, meeting, higher quality women, and taking most of the cold approaching out of the equation.
And if this is your first time listening, you’ll want to go back to the previous two videos and watch those to get up to speed, because now I’m going into more detail and because this truly is a revolutionary new path and today I want to get into it.
Blissnosis Love stands on three concepts, on three pillars and I’m going to explain each of the three pillars individually, and then at the end I’ll connect the dots and explain how they all come together so you’ll want to stick through to the end.
The three pillars are, number one, “Blossoming”. Number two “Lovespace”. And pillar number three is what’s called “Blissplosion”.
Producing value
The first pillar is “Blossoming”.
Here’s the problem with traditional pickup, seduction, cold approaching… whatever you want to call it! You are the one chasing after the women. You are the one chasing after value.
You see a woman, she’s hot, she has the value, and you go chasing after her. Walking up, say hello, try to attract her, try to win her. Just by the act of cold approaching women, you are automatically set in the frame of the chaser. This puts the power into the woman’s hands and it can be stressful.
Really however, ideally, YOU want to be the one producing and giving value, not to be chasing after it. YOU want to be the epicenter of the value that the WOMEN chase after.
When the women are coming up to you, that takes all the stress out of the equation and makes it fun.
Here’s the secret: instead of chasing beautiful women, chasing after the external value, YOU can become the PRODUCER of value.
Instead of looking for the hand-outs and the dog scraps from the boss, you can take over the factory and become the boss yourself, the guy producing the value.
Take your typical hot girl at a club or bar. In reality, she’s hot because she spent hours on her makeup, hours on getting her hair straight, she spent hours in the salon doing her nails and getting her highlights, she invested money into her spray-on tan and her brilliant green eye colored contacts. She’s probably enduring hours of pain in her 3 inch heels and push up bra that makes her breasts look three times bigger.
In the morning, when the makeup and clothes come off and her hair is a messy nest, she looks pretty much like any other plain Jane.
In other words, your average hot girl you see on the street didn’t start that way in the morning.
In addition, attractive women on the surface have all sorts of emotional problems underneath.
They’re typically insecure, often spoiled, often bitchy, often they’re drama queens. Many of them are socially inept, are uninteresting people. Many go through wild mood swings and have depressive episodes. Many are addicted to drugs or are alcoholics. Even though you might be wishing for a real hottie in your fantasies, in reality they can often drive you completely crazy as girlfriends.
Even the hot ones with a head on their shoulders, many times they’re completely timid in bed, they’re sexual inexperienced and naive. They don’t know how to rock your world how you might fantasize in your head.
So that perfect dream girl… really you often have to do thousands of walk-ups, thousands of cold approaches to find her, and it can take FOREVER, even if you’re getting makeouts and new dates every week. Just look at all the pickup gurus out there, most of them haven’t even found and stuck with a quality girlfriend. And if you still have approach anxiety meaning you’re not meeting lots of new women each week, wow, you have a looong road ahead of you.
But what if you could BUILD dream girls, what if you could BUILD those Perfect 10s, pump them out like a factory, be the manufacturing plant of female hotness, right in your own home or apartment. So instead of chasing after external value, you are the source of its production and you can harness all that value to work FOR you.
Blossoming
In other words, you take the common Plane Jane’s, and you guide them so that their light, their expression, their Tensation, their smile, their radiance and glow, Blossoms open like a glorious butterfly from its cocoon. So that they’re laughing and singing and dancing and have a beautiful, open, healing energy that they just want to reach out and touch others with.
So while other women have that standoffish, negative energy, she is the one bringing the beauty to the room, the splendor, the blinding light, a state so powerful it overwhelms others, she is the chocolate, the ice-cream, the wine, the flowers in both her outer appearance and inner splendor.
And from that other women will want more than a taste, they will be hooked, they will be attracted and coming up to you and the women you’re with for a piece of that glorious state.
That’s Blossoming… what I call Starlight girls…. a woman letting go of the social conditioning that causes her to be a bitch or be plain and instead radiate raw attraction and sexy star power, and share her glow and rays through expression and Tensation. Blossoming, it’s what causes women to perk up around you and be immensely open to talking with you.
In essence, you bring value by teaching women to bring value and in doing so making them your biggest fans and advocates and having them be the attractors for you.
So no longer are you search for those elusive Perfect 9s and 10s, but YOU are the factory of what everyone is chasing after, that outer beauty and the inner beauty, which the women themselves are chasing after. And this is the secret to turning pickup upside down on its head.
The key is mastering the Hand of Starlight, to become a Starlight guide, and it’s really not difficult at all to do.
Take a look at this photo, and I’ve included it right below the video so that you can click on it for a zoomed-in view. This photo was taken at a competition in June 2006. The competition was between nine women for the best makeover.
These nine women had every possible beauty treatment available to them over a period of twelve hours before the contest. Meaning they had only TWELVE hours to get ready, so no plastic surgery. Only makeup, hair, skin conditioning, and clothing.
Take a look at the photo close up. In the top row you’ll see the nine women—none of them are exactly your perfect 10s that would make you trip over yourself to meet. And look at the bottom row. Blossoming of the outer appearance to look radiantly feminine with hair, makeup, and the right clothing.
That’s Blossoming outer appearance, and combined with Blossoming the inner woman, you become the factory and master of goddesses, of inner and outer transformation of women from their walled cocoons of social conditioning and limiting beliefs into beautiful butterflies in every sense from her inner majestic beauty, to her sexuality, to her outer splendor, that overwhelms other women with their light and can do all the attraction for you, meaning now more pain, loneliness, or dealing with brutal cold approaching again.
Lovespace
Blossoming, okay that’s the first leg. But there is more. This is not so easy, I said before you have to put some time and study into this. The second leg of the formula is Lovespace.
Lovespace is the master tool for bringing love and light and joy and tranquility to a woman’s inner self.
Lovespace is the master tool for forging a beautiful woman out of a simple seed into a glorious force of unstoppable beauty so that a total transformation takes place from the gleam in her eyes, to the beam in her smile, to the softening warmth of her heart.
Lovespace is the secret to bringing out a woman’s full sexuality so that she’s completely free from social conditioning and free and eager to please you and do the meeting and greeting and shining value for you so that when you go out you are a like a lightning hammer of attraction that just draws women in.
Lovespace consists of two parts, ‘Love’ and secondly, ‘Space’. Love is teaching women new things like Tensation, expression, Blossoming her sexuality, Blossoming her in every way.
But women, molded by social conditioning, have many bad habits, insecurities, unnecessary drama in their lives. Their will be roadblocks and speed bumps along the way in their evolution, so with the Love you’ll also be conversely creating Space. Space is the ‘Push’ to really help the woman step out of her bad habits and the drama and blossom into Starlight.
I’d like to go into Lovespace more, but let’s leave it at that because there’s just a lot to cover here.
Blissplosion
The third leg that you need with Blossoming and Lovespace is Blissplosion.
You’re the producer of value, you’re the factory where the hottest, most desirable women on the planet can Blossom into being.
When you bring that shining Starlight woman to a nightclub or a bar or a social party, or even to a daytime venue like a bookstore, this is when Blissplosion rocks the venue like a small earthquake.
Just lean back and let the Bliss explosion hit the fan, letting your Starlight girls do the attraction and meeting and greeting work for you.
It’s in this way that you’re not starting from scratch every time you meet a new girl, you don’t have to chase after her value every time you meet someone new. Instead, YOU have produced value from the women you’ve already met from before and you can just build your circle of value and beautiful women bigger and bigger with time.
Love Circles
And from there you can begin building your Love Circle. Instead of juggling lots of women and hiding them from each other, or using women coldly, Starlight girls are totally cool with the other women in your life, so that you can gradually build a Love Circle of women that you see on a regular basis, a Circle of 3 or 5 or even 10 or more women.
The girls in your Love Circle don’t live with you, it’s not a harem situation, they keep their own lives, but as Starlight girls it’s like a loving community of sexually free women who are also the hottest, most advanced both internally and externally and they are there for you, as lovers, as friends, as companions.
And again it’s this Love Circle dynamic which is key because it’s relationships that are what’s fun. Not string of one night stands, that is not what I’m teaching. It’s keeping ongoing relationships with cool and sexually sophisticated women that is what will ultimately bring you long term joy and happiness in your life.
And best of all, all the women in your Circle will really love your for it, for showing them and teaching them new aspects of her sexuality, for opening her up to the magical gifts of Tensation, Expression, female polarity, and other life-changing frames.
So you can begin to see here how all of the cold approaching is taken out of the equation, and with each girl you bring into your life you can build a stable of sexual social value that is a gift, a joy to everyone that comes in touch with it. Each girl you meet builds for the future women to be touched.
And your looks, age, height don’t matter because you’re building value and building attraction in a revolutionary way that has nothing to do with looks or age and yet far surpasses it.
And in the process you build better girlfriends, women that don’t cause you drama but instead look up to you, admire you, worship you for all the gifts you give them, and you truly transform them from the inside to the outside into mesmerizing dream girls.
You have variety and flexibility, if you want to meet new women each week you can, if you want to build a steady circle or two or three girls you can go that route, it’s a very flexible system for designing a relationship structure that fits your needs. But no matter what it is you choose, this is about building solid relationships of mutual joy, trust, sharing, and community. This isn’t about juggling a bunch of girlfriends, here all the girls are one big friendship family, and it’s not about getting a fast lay and dumping the girl right after or using the girls just for sex or being a jerk.
After all you are giving value, so much more than value than you would otherwise, you’re making the women you meet far better people and showing them the way to true inner happiness. This is about making the girls you’re with your biggest fans, your biggest raving supporters, making them enthusiastic advocates and activists for you.
Compare that to regular pickup formulas, to cold approaching, where you have to do a million nerve-wracking approaches to practice, starting from scratch with no social value each and every time you approach, and it’s often based on trickery and where the girls are used for sex and thereafter dumped and left no better off for having met you. Just not cool.
Ecosystem and more
Now I just outlined the broad principles here, the devil is in the details and I’d have to expand on each section. For example I still need to go into what’s the difference between Seed Girls, Firecrackers, and Starlight girls and where they all fit into the scheme of things. I need to go over Masculine Polarity, like a woman, in order to transform her, needs to know that she is around a force that is stronger than she is, spiritually, emotionally, and physically so that she can relax into her femininity and follow your lead.
I need to talk about Ecosystem. You want to get to the point where the positive energy of the girls bounce and feed each other, in a synergistic feedback, so that 1 + 1 = 3, mutually reinforcing each other in a virtuous circle. So creating a nourishing environment for Blissnosis from the bedroom, to your house, to the very fabric of our societal customs is absolutely key too.
But just with what you’ve got so far, this should give you the basic idea of how it all works.
And as you can see this is NOT some kind of get-laid-quick scheme. It can happen quickly, very quickly, but you will still need to put some work and dedication into it, it’s not an escape, it’s not a quick fix, it’s just a different path, a healthier path to reach your goals.
And if you want to fly this airplane too, and I can promise it is very rewarding, I can elaborate on all of these concepts Blossoming, Lovespace, Blissplosion, Polarity, Ecosystem, but… I need to hear from you and to hear that there’s interest out there, because it takes time to produce these videos, so I want to know if my lifestyle is something that I should really invest my time sharing with the you guys and if you’re truly serious and gung-ho about pursuing this path.
And if you are, I’m thinking of putting out some case studies and interviews I may do with friends who have followed the path so that you can get a first hand spy view into the lifestyle and what it’s like.
Also, if you have specific questions, I could start collecting them now and maybe answering some of them in the next video, so just shoot me an email through the contact page or leave a comment below and I’ll try to get to answering questions as well.
Well thanks for listening guys, I am excited about getting the rest of the details out to you as this has been a long time coming and really I feel like I’m just itching, hey really exploding, to share it all with you because, hell it’s just plain fun and the more guys who can really achieve transcendence the better the world will be off.
Well, that’s it for now guys, I’m Jesse Charger signing off, and have a good weekend.
Hey guys, Jesse again, if this were a marketing headline it would read something like this: *** STOP Trying to “Get Women” and Instead Have Women Approach YOU for Dates, No Matter What Your Age or Looks ***
But seriously, this method does take a great deal of the approaching OUT of the equation. And let’s face it- to someone just starting out, approaching women and facing rejection is by far the WORST part of meeting women.
By the way I really appreciate the response and all the comments on the last video, so I’m going to go ahead and explain more of this formula. And you have to be patient here, because I’m going to be releasing this information over the next few weeks into manageable chunks. And then I’ll essentially try to squeeze everything into an easy to read PDF booklet for easy downloading.
First, here are the benefits that I can think of that Blissnosis Love has over traditional cold-approaching methods:
First, number one:
In regular cold approaching, each pickup is a separate event; essentially you have to start from scratch with each new girl you meet. With Blissnosis however, the first girl you meet builds momentum to making it easier to meet the NEXT girl. So you’re not starting from zero, you’re not starting from scratch all over again, you’re not losing all the time you put in previously.
Eventually, you’ll be doing 10% of the work, and the other 90% of the attracting will be handled for you. No more “1,000 approaches newbie missions” until your eyes bleed. With Blissnosis you’re doing far less work and effort for more results. It’s like exploding the party with a stick of dynamite rather than a firecracker.
Benefit number two:
You net far higher hotter women than you would otherwise with normal cold approaching. We’re talking averages here, but on average, you hook up with hotter and more sexual and higher quality girls than you would ordinarily meet at a typical bar or club. It’s because in a typical bar or club or social party situation, you’re starting again from scratch, walking in the door with no social value but with Blissnosis you walk into the party not from scratch, but with value already AND I’ll be showing you how to pinpoint the right parties where at least most of the attendees women, and the women have been pre-selected for their attractiveness and sexual expressiveness.
Benefit number three:
Better girlfriends. In the process you’ll also create better girlfriends, for example girls that don’t nag and whine and instead are eager to please.
This also ties into no more cheating girlfriends. I made a big deal out of this in my relationships program, but it’s true: 50% of all married women, married wives of husbands, admit to some form of cheating on their men, and the percent is even higher for girlfriends. Chances are it’s happened to you too even if you don’t know it. Through Blissnosis, in the process, you’ll also “cheat proof” your girls so that they don’t even think of other guys outside of your relationship.
Benefit four:
You have variety and flexibility. You can use this method to meet new women every weekend reliably or just build two or three steady girlfriends, if steadiness with the same women is what counts for you. Blissnosis is not about having a string of one night stands, I don’t teach that, in fact I believe it’s having the relationships that’s the most fulfilling and enjoyable, so that even if you’re meeting new women every weekend, I show you how to remain friends with all of them and do it in a way that you’re not juggling all the girls with trickery and trying to keep them from knowing about one another. It’s the Love Circle model, and I’ll get into more details about that in upcoming videos.
Benefit five:
This is the most important. You want lots of success, but you don’t want the women feeling hurt or used, you don’t want to be a jerk about it. I put Love right into the title of the site because this is about spreading Love, Starlight, Expression, Tensation, and having the girls love you for it. You want the women to Love you for this, not be pissed off. You’re making the women you meet far better people and showing them the way to true inner happiness. This is about making the girls you’re with your biggest fans, your biggest raving supporters, making them advocates and activists for you, and this is part of the secret of taking the cold approaching out of the equation and turning pickup upside down on its head. More about that later.
Six, benefit six:
Your looks, age, height don’t matter because you’re building on past successes to the point where your social value far outweighs any other factors like looks or age.
Compare that to regular pickup formulas, to cold approaching, where you have to do a million nerve-wracking approaches to practice and it’s often based on trickery and where the girls are used for sex and thereafter dumped and left no better off for having met you. Not cool.
Of course, Blissnosis Love in the wrong hands, twisted into something that it’s not, can be used to really hurt a girl too if you want to be a complete jerk about it, so I really implore you only to continue on if you’re truly serious about making the world a better place with Blissnosis and doing it with Love in your heart and compassion in your eyes.
Those are some of the benefits that come off the top of my head, but to be fair, I need to give you a few words of warning as well.
This is NOT some kind of get-laid-quick scheme. This is about building an ongoing lifestyle of having new women in your life on a regular basis and being able to stay in touch with them without the drama of juggling girlfriends or the anxiety of doing a million approaches - BUT like any dramatic change in lifestyle, you WILL need to put some work into this and it will require some mindset and belief changes.
You cannot have three or five or ten women in your life and still expect to get this overnight or by sitting in front of your computer all day playing Worlds of Warcraft, it just cannot happen. Just by the temporal limits of time, that there’s only 24 hours in a day, many of them you need to be sleeping, you will need to devote some time to this. Again, this is not a get-laid-quick scheme. Yes, it can happen quickly, amazingly quickly, but you will still need to make some lifestyle changes along the way and put time into this.
Number two, you need to LIKE using condoms. Yes, be totally cool and utterly responsible and consistent with using condoms. I’m serious about this. If you are the kind of guy who pulls that condom off on first night because you’re so hot for the girl, or over the span of a few weeks you just want to rip that condom off, you’re going to be putting too many other good, nice girls in a bad position. And if that’s you, really I would stick with finding a single girl or girlfriend that you can forgo condoms with, and forget what I’m about to tell you in the upcoming videos.
Words of warning number three, you have to be comfortable with power. A guy who meets a drunk girl at a bar and has a one night stand with her is not “in power”, he’s playing a game. The Blissnosis Love method requires a healthy does of “being in power” and therefore lots of responsibility not to hurt others and being highly responsible with this technology. If you use this to go on a reckless power trip, there will be consequences.
Next video, I’ll get into the details, the meat, of how this all works, first I believe with a general overview of the formula, so stay tuned.
Hey guys, I’m really excited here, really excited because I have got some great information I want to share with you, and I’ve been keeping this bottled up for a long time now but now I think it’s ready for prime time. And this is really important what I’m going to be sharing with you over the next coming weeks and I don’t want you to miss any of it.
Let me say first, just what a privilege it’s been to share all the ins and outs of attraction with you. It’s really been a pleasure and I want to give back even more because I love it when I see other guys have success in this area, it’s just fantastic.
Now in the last few weeks there’s been some confusion, I put up the Academy, and now I’ve taken it down because, I really wasn’t giving you the full story and I think you deserve to have it.
My plan was to teach you exactly how to approach and meet women—but really the best way to meet lots of women, or meet that dream girl, is not to do a million cold approaches.
Let’s face it, approaching women and facing rejection is by far the WORST part of meeting women.
For me, it’s fun to go out and meet new girls. I love it, it’s glorious. I really enjoy showering women I meet with great feelings and getting great feelings back in return. But I know that’s not everybody, and that’s easier said then done.
More often, approaching women can be a nerve wracking CHORE. It can feel at times so much easier just to stay at home than go through the extreme anxiety.
You know the feeling; your heart starts beating out of your chest, your palms sweat profusely, your mouth dries up like the Sahara, and your voice squeaks out a lame “Hi!” Then the girl ignores you or turns her back and you’re “blown out”. You turn around sulking, with your tail between your legs, hoping no one will notice. It’s happened to me plenty of times, and I can tell you, yes it does feels terrible…
And that’s if things go WELL.
Most of the time you hesitate and pace back and forth until your opportunity slips away, and then you feel terrible about yourself for “chickening out”.
In fact, most guys who get into “the game” quit after just a few months, their egos battered and bruised and even WORSE off than when they started.
But if you stay at home, you will feel the deprivation. We all need the touch of a beautiful woman against our skin, we all want to wake up in the morning with the girl next door, to share all the moments and make our lives happy. We all want to feel loved and have the admiration of a beautiful woman. And really, we all do deserve a little bit of happiness.
But what if you could ELIMINATE having to approach and meet and face rejection all together…
… and instead have interested women approach YOU for dates, and skip right to the “We Have An Incredible Connection Together!” part?
You see, approaching women and facing rejection with other people’s “lines”, “routines”, “tactics”, “pickup guy personas”, and general trickery is NOT natural and NOT how human beings naturally operate.
There’s a better way. In fact, there’s a far EASIER and less painful way to meet beautiful women.
And that’s to have the GIRLS approach YOU.
That’s right to have the girls approaching YOU.
You see, you can meet women and take 90% of the approaching OUT of the equation by building off the women you’ve already met and building off the time and effort you’ve already put in—AND you will start to have women approaching YOU. And it works far more effectively, netting far hotter girls than you’d meet otherwise.
No more grueling tortures of the humiliating and nerve-wracking “1,000 walk-up newbie missions” that other guys out there advocate. Who has the time for that anyway?
There’s a much better way, and in fact I’m just itching to share it with you at this point because I’ve been keeping it bottled up for so long now.
Here’s the thing though. I’ve shared this already with a few friends and they’re not keen on me blabbing it around. And you know what? They do have a point.
I call the formula Blissnosis LOVE, not to be confused with my old Blissnosis relationships programs from past years. Blissnosis Love is an all new concept and formula, but frankly it can be used not for creating love and sex in the world but for abuse in the wrong hands. So eventually down the road I may have a screening process to limit who I share the details with.
And I really haven’t seen anyone else out there employing this, maybe because it’s just such a mind warp that turns everything you know about seduction and attraction upside down and on its head.
After all, this is about taking most of the approaching OUT of the pickup equation and making your dating life just a lot simpler and easier.
And I want to begin sharing this now that I think I’ve perfected it enough to go public with it. And you know, Damian … that mad hatter, hypnotist who collaborated with me on Deep Inner Game, is encouraging me to go ahead and give it the green light, so I think it’s going to happen.
One last thing… I’m probably going to use my name Jesse. This stuff strays far enough away from your typical pickup/attraction ideology that I don’t want the name Derek associated it with, just to avoid confusion.
If you’d like to share your thoughts, I’m putting up a blog at www.blissnosis.com. The design is a work in progress, and I wanted to go with light and happy colors because, well that’s how I’m feeling and I hope you are too.
That’s it for now, again Blissnosis.com just leave a comment and let me know what you think.
Miss Venezuela was crowned Miss Universe, while Miss Colombia took 2nd place. Venezuela seems to have a talent for winning beauty pageants.
Take a look at Miss Venezuela’s attractive body language, her cheerful, honest smile.
That’s the kind of smile that YOU want to have when you go out to a club – an almost childlike, happy, vivacious, never-ending smile. Smiling even while you talk, smiling even when you have nothing in particular to smile about.
When I go to a club, I’m often the ONLY guy smiling in the place. It’s what makes me stand out, it’s what gives me attractive body language.
Naturals smile. It’s their trademark. They’re happy with what’s right in front of them, they’re happy with what’s going on, and they touch everyone with their inner spirit and joy.
Girls see a guy like that and they want to be part of it. They want to touch his energy.
Take a good look at Miss Venezuela. Can you model her attractive body language and smile?
Let’s learn a lesson from Han, getting laid his way. Watch the video of Han’s kissy-kissy action first. Okay, let’s break this down.
A big question I get from guys who want to be getting laid is, “Derek, how do I get passed a woman’s bitch shield”?
Well, let’s take a look at Han here. When Leia puts up her “bitch shield” when she tells Han, “Would you please stop calling me that?” most guys would already be slinking away, feeling rejected. :ohmy
Our man Han doesn’t though. He just rolls with it, ignoring her tone and instead setting his own.
Unsuccessful blowout attempt #2: Leia tells Han, “Oh, you make it so difficult sometimes.”
Han doesn’t get pissed off or slink away, not at all. He persists, and just rolls with it. “I do, I really do. You could be a little nicer, though,” he tells her as he moves in closer.
He takes her hand. You see, he moves forward despite getting “blown out”. And he’s not fighting against her. Her negative attitude or “bitch shield” isn’t even registering in his reality.
Unsuccessful blowout attempt #3: Leia says to Han, “Occasionally… when you aren’t acting like a scoundrel.”
With the third blowout attempt, most guys would bail out, or at least let go of her hand. But Han persists, relentlessly, and keeps up the physical contact. In fact, he seems to ENJOY her blowout attempt as he laughs at it and sees it as an indicator of interest from her. “Scoundrel? Scoundrel? I like the sound of that.”
With that, Han takes her hand and starts to massage it.
Unsuccessful blowout attempt #4:“Stop that,” she says.
“Stop what?” It’s not even registering in his reality. Han just ignores it.
At this point you can subtly sense that Leia has switch from resistance to attraction.
Unsuccessful blowout attempt #5: She is persistent, isn’t she? “Stop that! My hands are dirty.”
But Han doesn’t react, her “bitch shield” is irrelevant. It doesn’t even register in his reality, it doesn’t exist. He just persists. He’s a man who knows what he wants and goes for it. He does not care about what others think of him, he doesn’t wait for signs from the girl that it’s okay to continue. Han again just rolls with it. “My hands are dirty, too. What are you afraid of?”
At this point Han hits her with the triangular gaze, the intense, unbroken and piercing “I will fuck you” eye contact. He moves in and closes the space between their bodies.
Now Han begins LEADING the girl’s state. “You’re trembling.”
Unsuccessful blowout attempt #6:“I’m not trembling.”
But Han doesn’t let her negativity affect him with his almost delusional sense of self-propulsion and destiny. No matter how many times Leia says “No thanks” he persists, unwavering, almost with delusional belief and conviction in the attraction and getting laid. And at this point her voice betrays her attraction.
Han leads again: “You like me because I’m a scoundrel. There aren’t enough scoundrels in your life.”
Unsuccessful blowout attempt #7:“I happen to like nice men,” she says but now her voice is more excited than resistant.
Han is so unreactive he eventually sucks her into his version of reality and leads her with the kiss and wins the girl.
In a very real sense, like Neo in the Matrix, Han was able to “bend” the fabric of reality, “bend” the attraction dynamic, just by a delusional ignoring of hers and relentlessly persisting in his own with 100% belief.
You see, “blowouts” and “bitch shields” don’t exist unless you allow them to. Unless Leia were to physically leave the room, only then would Han really be blown out. Unless Han was affected by her resistance and slinked away, only then would her “bitch shield” have won out.
The best naturals are great at what they do not because of a bunch of lines and techniques. It’s because they don’t worry about what others think on their mission of getting laid.
Women like persistence. Women want a guy who plows through. Women want guys who go for what they want. Persisting despite the woman shows to her that you’re an alpha male, that you’re a leader, and that you can potentially give her powerful offspring.
It’s that ignoring the blowouts, setting your own reality, and plowing through initial resistance that most generates the mad attraction.
In Han’s case, he got a “No” Seven times, before he got the “Yes!” That’s because Leia “flipped” states when Han overpowered her with his.
Let me ask you– what would you have done?
Are you always looking for the girl’s immediate approval and slink off at the first sign of resistance… or do you persist like a runaway train and close in hard to generate that hard attraction and get laid?
Think for a moment- what is more important than how you feel?
If you were to make more money, you might FEEL more freedom.
If you were to have more power and prestige, you might FEEL you have more control and security.
And if you were to have the dream girlfriend, you might FEEL more self-esteem or love or pleasure.
It’s not the objects themselves that you’re after, but the feelings they give you.
The problem with all of these things is that the good feelings they give you are TEMPORARY.
If you get a raise, you’ll be happy and excited for a while, but pretty soon you’ll revert to your normal emotional level and you won’t even notice the extra money. In fact, you’ll upgrade your lifestyle and pretty soon you’ll be just as unhappy until you get the next raise.
Likewise, having a girlfriend will bring a flood of emotions—infatuation, love, sexual pleasure—but all those too will pass. Pretty soon you’ll revert back to your normal emotional level.
If you’re living in fear, anger, rejection, bitterness, impatience—it doesn’t matter how much money you make, how much power you attain, or how many girls you lay in your bed—you’ll feel a temporary rush of pleasure, but at the end of the day your “emotional thermometer” will readjust back into fear, anger, and rejection.
If you’re living in those states, the quality of your life will be substandard and shoddy no matter how much cash in your pocket, no matter how many people look up to you, and no matter how many girls open their door to you.
Can you live in a great emotional state WITHOUT any of those external things? Can you feel inside the way you want to feel without external validation from others? Can you instead feel passionate and spectacular about yourself, about your physical fitness, about your personal passions and pastimes?
Then you won’t need approval from your boss, or approval from friends, or approval from girls to feel spectacular—you’ll feel that way as a matter of natural course. Then you won’t spend all of your time chasing, chasing, chasing—you can just BE. And a guy who already feels like a High King without the money or cars or girls is, paradoxically, exactly what will attract girls to you in the first place.
That’s my “seduction tip” for you to today. I know it’s a little abstract, but if you can master that it will bring you a lot farther along than any pick-up line I could give you.
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